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https://youtu.be/6ySBv-HHyK4

 

 
00:00 Chapter 1: 5 Major Pieces of the Life Puzzle
27:28 1. Philosophy
48:00 2. Attitude
53:38 3. Activity
1:03:33 4. Results
1:12:46 5. Lifestyle
 
1:24:24 Chapter 2: Personal Development: The Proven Principles
1:28:10 Money [Value]
 
1:38:20 Life is Like the Seasons
1:41:37 1. Winter
1:45:35 2. Spring
1:48:09 3. Summer
1:55:10 4. Fall
 
1:56:20 Physical
1:58:45 1. Appearance
2:00:07 2. Spiritual
2:00:58 3. Mental
2:05:12 4. Library
2:20:28 5. Keep a journal
 
2:29:50 Chapter 3: The 5 Abilities
2:30:10 1. The Ability to Absorb
2:32:17 2. Learn to Respond
2:39:25 3. The Ability to Reflect
2:48:55 4. Ability to Act and Take Action
3:05:53 5. Develop the Ability to Share
 
3:11:54 Goals
3:25:35 1. Don't Set Too Low
3:27:00 2. Don't Compromise, Don't Sell Out
 
3:31:15 Chapter 4: Financial Independence
3:42:01 1. Keep Strict Accounts
3:43:00 2. Develop a New Attitude Communication
 
3:49:00 4 Steps to Communication
3:51:38 1. Have Something Good to Say
3:56:39 2. Saying it Well
4:00:58 3. Read Your Audience
4:06:47 4. Intensity Conclusion
 
4:10:35 Master Negativity
4:13:25 The Day That Turns Your Life Around
4:19:25 The Greatest Challenge in Leadership
 
"If you will change, everything will change for you" 
 
I met Jim in the fall of 1993, the year I got my investment and life licence. I attended his presenation in Ottawa at the Congress Centre, decided to sign up for his weekend study, took lots of notes, got me thinking, inspired,  got me journalling, turned my life around. I studied  his teachings , his recordings, and attended and met him in  future seminars. I considered him my mentor. I enjoy listening to him to this very day, I circle back for a refresher at least once a year. I hope his lessons can help you as well. ~ TLR
 

“Don’t say, ‘If I could, I would.’ Say, ‘If I can, I will.’”


“Don’t wish it was easier, wish you were better. Don’t wish for less problems, wish for more skills. Don’t wish for less challenge, wish for more wisdom.”


“Either you run the day or the day runs you.”


“Without a sense of urgency, desire loses its value.”


“If you don’t like how things are, change it! You’re not a tree.”


“How long should you try? Until.”


“Learn how to be happy with what you have while you pursue all that you want.”


1. “Don’t wish it was easier, wish you were better. Don’t wish for less problems, wish for more skills. Don’t wish for less challenge, wish for more wisdom.”

2. “If you are not willing to risk the unusual, you will have to settle for the ordinary.”

3. “Start from wherever you are and with whatever you’ve got.”

4. “Formal education will make you a living; self-education will make you a fortune.”

5. “Success is nothing more than a few simple disciplines, practiced every day.”

6. “Either you run the day or the day runs you.”

7. “We must all wage an intense, lifelong battle against the constant downward pull. If we relax, the bugs and weeds of negativity will move into the garden and take away everything of value.”

8. “Motivation is what gets you started. Habit is what keeps you going.”

9. “If you are not willing to risk the unusual, you will have to settle for the ordinary.”

10. “To solve any problem, here are three questions to ask yourself: First, what could I do? Second, what could I read? And third, who could I ask?”

11. “If you really want to do something, you’ll find a way. If you don’t, you’ll find an excuse.”

12. “If you go to work on your goals, your goals will go to work on you. If you go to work on your plan, your plan will go to work on you. Whatever good things we build end up building us.”

13. “Motivation alone is not enough. If you have an idiot and you motivate him, now you have a motivated idiot.”

14. “It isn’t what the book costs; it’s what it will cost you if you don’t read it.”

15. “You must take personal responsibility. You cannot change the circumstances, the seasons, or the wind, but you can change yourself. That is something you have charge of.”

16. “Success is neither magical nor mysterious. Success is the natural consequence of consistently applying the basic fundamentals.”

17. “Failure is not a single, cataclysmic event. You don’t fail overnight. Instead, failure is a few errors in judgement, repeated every day.”

18. “Work harder on yourself than you do on your job.”

19. “You cannot change your destination overnight, but you can change your direction overnight.”

20. “You don’t get paid for the hour. You get paid for the value you bring to the hour.”

21. “Don’t just read the easy stuff. You may be entertained by it, but you will never grow from it.”

22. “Let others lead small lives, but not you. Let others argue over small things, but not you. Let others cry over small hurts, but not you. Let others leave their future in someone else’s hands, but not you.”

23. “We must all suffer one of two things: the pain of discipline or the pain of regret or disappointment.”

24. “Without a sense of urgency, desire loses its value.”

25. “Life and business is like the changing seasons. You cannot change the seasons, but you can change yourself. Therein lies the opportunity to live an extraordinary life–the opportunity to change yourself.”

26. “Discipline is the bridge between goals and accomplishment”

27. “Take advantage of every opportunity to practice your communication skills so that when important occasions arise, you will have the gift, the style, the sharpness, the clarity, and the emotions to affect other people.”

28. “If you don’t like how things are, change it! You’re not a tree.”

29. “Days are expensive. When you spend a day you have one less day to spend. So make sure you spend each one wisely.”

30. “Give whatever you are doing and whoever you are with the gift of your attention.”

31. “Learn how to be happy with what you have while you pursue all that you want.”

32. “You cannot make progress without making decisions.”

33. “Don’t say, ‘If I could, I would.’ Say, ‘If I can, I will.’”

34. “No one else ‘makes us angry.’ We make ourselves angry when we surrender control of our attitude.”

35. “Your personal philosophy is the greatest determining factor in how your life works out.”

36. “The big challenge is to become all that you have the possibility of becoming. You cannot believe what it does to the human spirit to maximize your human potential and stretch yourself to the limit.”

37. “The challenge of leadership is to be strong, but not rude; be kind, but not weak; be bold, but not bully; be thoughtful, but not lazy; be humble, but not timid; be proud, but not arrogant; have humor, but without folly.”

38. “The more you care, the stronger you can be.”

39. “Character is a quality that embodies many important traits, such as integrity, courage, perseverance, confidence and wisdom. Unlike your fingerprints that you are born with and can’t change, character is something that you create within yourself and must take responsibility for changing.”

40. “How long should you try? Until.”

 

"The beauty of being in business is that your business engages all aspects of your mind, I think that is why you become successful, business challenges you to be more than you are, and that is where the miracle takes place." Timothy Ross, May 2004

 

 

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Let’s not miss this

This is a great story for leaders, the story of Joseph is legendary,  this is just the surface, in this lesson the minister touches on a variety of topics that can nurture us, some joy in our parting and hello’s, some sound advice for teaching our sons and daughters how to be better in society , some valuable life lessons. 

 Sent, Sold, Sad, Safe (Part 1 of 2) - Broadcast - Truth For Life https://www.truthforlife.org/broadcasts/2018/10/24/sent-sold-sad-safe-part-1-of-2/

 

Genesis 37 , picks up the story of Joseph 

Remember that there is moments of life in 

Our good byes 

Our greetings 

We need to teach our children, train them to stand on their own two feet. 

 

Go Check Report Back , his dad’s plan to teach independence 

Looking people in the eye

Parting is such sweet sorrows, full of emotions 

speak when spoken to

common courtesy’s teach to children

Teach them to be responsive , to pay attention, look in my eyes example , in your eyes I see your soul, I find out who you are

its a wonderful world, Louis Armstrong 

friends greating friends

saying how are you 

there is is a last time for every journey 

 

you will never know when it is the last time

 

It is good to make much of our partings and our hello’s

they are significant events in life

 

let’s not miss the chances in the common simple every day events of life

 

Love baby love , that’s the secret

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2nGKqH26xlg&list=PLhhVyaUmOQupT95UiO_74c0-wATcRxceV ;

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Inspirational Tipping Point

My notes from IFB Ottawa Ccnference  last month that I attended as part of our professional development . 

An  encouraging session 

  • Tim

 

Simon Reilly, Leading Advisor



You can go out there and add value.

Cicero and Damenthosis, speech, let’s March

Get the why right or you will just do

We have a vocation not a job,  a vocation has it in your soul, the why you do it !

Passion and pulls you forward

Get rid of fear !

Inspire from deep within

We all have values inherent within you, tie values and inspiration together

If your acting tired, burn out, overwhelmed, no time, why would clients want to work with you, they will feel that from you

Feel you have time and money, make is

Wake up to gain additional understanding

We have to take responsibility, if it is going to be it’s up to me

Being, your soul

Bob Dylan , back seat driving quote Time magazine

Control I need to do it myself, need of approval and recognition, thoughts are a wheel of fortune, pick up the vibe , and they disempower themselves , and they start making mistakes , they will last 6 months if your lucky

We get distracted from making a difference by all the baggage we carry

Front seat driver or back seat driver

People walk through their days unconsciously

The emotions and belief systems get in the way

Leading Advisor , testimony from Robert Clark,   Millennium, extremely bright ,

We can’t superimposing judgements on them

Missy Pursley, became the leader as she got strong vision

He works for a short period of time, you don’t need a paid friend

Don’t need to be driven by the back seat driver, doesn’t need to be that way

We need to seize the day and see the people

Understand and discover how to get your needs met

People are getting overwhelmed with the decision processing

Work out business puzzles and solve them

Create the family office

Free book, presentation they did

97$ to get started , after evaluation to start,

Get changed at a cellular level, help get past hang ups that I have

So you don’t have to prove to much, just explain how it will happen

What ever you resist persists

What is out needs DNA ?

What is the story behind it? Step 1, Step 2

Work through the emotions and belief

Develop your conviction  

Your greater than your body, your mind ,!its your soul

We can provide extraordinary value to our clients

Say Yes

Good presentation, positive ideas , perhaps could benefit from this coaching going forward

Ted Talk Link

https://youtu.be/1gNUpM0Dz7Q



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Thousands of years ago, the story of Let's March was born. Two of the greatest public speakers of all time were Cicero and Demosthenes. Cicero was the greatest speaker in Rome; Demosthenes was the greatest speaker in Athens. After every time Cicero gave a speech, the audience would give him a standing ovation, wildly applaud, and say, "Wow, what an incredible speech." When Demosthenes was done speaking, the people would say, "Let's March."

https://www.encyclopedia.com/arts/culture-magazines/ciceros-speeches

https://www.encyclopedia.com/arts/https://www.encyclopedia.com/arts/culture-magazines/ciceros-speechesculture-magazines/ciceros-speeches

 

http://10point1.blogspot.com/2010/10/really-truth-is-just-plain-picture-bob.html

Bob Dylan Interview -Time

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Thanksgiving Memories

As I'm going through my email today and yesterday, I received a number of encouraging  messages and thoughts about being Thankful and Gratitude.

I'm going to list the last one I got here. I  think we can all use a little thanksgiving in our life and be motivated by that. At Brock Shores Financial, we are all about #ImprovingFutures ,  building on a foundation of thankfulness.

Tim Ross, CEO & Founder

From Suzane Hart, Suzane leads a dynamic health networking home based business, she does consulting in this area and has some great marketing ideas. Her message "Fit,Fab & Fulfilled" just inspires.  Now ee met several years ago at a BNI meeting at Buds on The Bay in Brockville. My family joined her network and we built a little team, unfortunately we never stuck with it. In a network marketing business you have to stick with it, I had other priorities in my business,  by not sticking with it, I did loose out on potentially a lot of dollars as many people I know eventually got vested into that company and they enjoy the products and the income it generates for their families, it's a lot of work, and you have to stay for the long term. So I get little reminders and ideas from Suzanne through out the year. Here is her thankful message and a little gift that can help you.   


 

As I woke this morning I was filled with gratitude.  I was present to all the ways both big and small that my life has been blessed. As I watched the sun come up from living room window I gave thanks for all the people who have touched my life.  So in the spirit of gratitude on the beautiful thanks giving day, I wanted to say thank you Timothy, for blessing my life.

Here is a link to her gift, a great assessment tool to help you be a more dynamic productive leader, check it out

If you ever decided to start a business, be it a network marketing business or a more traditional business, touch base with us here at Brock Shores Financial, we love the creation of a business and the entrepreneur spirit that you need to have. Setting up properly gives your business a great chance to thrive and capture all the tax advantages that a small business offers.

http://suzanhart.com/wp-content/uploads/Hartzone-Leadership-Assessment.pdf

What is on a Leadership Scale ?

Commitment

Urgency

Initiative

Passion

Responsibility

Visionary

Solution Focused

Courage

Guiding Principles

Objectives

Integrity

Persistence

Contribution

Influence

Power

Attitude of Gratitude

Learner

Self Mastery

Communication

Conflict

These are some of the heavy weight items on the scale, download Suzan's tool and see where you are at. Then you can make better decisions moving forward. be sure and make any comments below that you would like to add, this is a community that we wish to inspire and build people up, so your future is improved. It's not all about the money, as Jim Rohn would say, money is just easy to count if your keeping score, it's not the only value, some things are priceless, yet hard to count.~ TLR

Jim Rohn Bibilical Leadership Lessons : Motivation Infusion #1  

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C25P6EMIs5g&list=PLhhVyaUmOQupT95UiO_74c0-wATcRxceV&index=1

 

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