Ya, that's me.
It's awesome.
So, I'm going to post some examples of other older fellas that have kids when they are older. A base to start some muses for later.
My friend Darren, brought up
Al Pacino https://people.com/parents/all-about-al-pacino-kids/
Al Pacino is officially a dad of four!
The 83-year-old actor welcomed a baby boy, Roman Pacino, with his girlfriend, Noor Alfallah, 29, in June 2023. The couple, who have been dating since April 2022, announced that they were expecting their first child together just weeks before their son's arrival.
Robert De Niro
https://people.com/parents/all-about-robert-de-niro-kids/
Robert De Niro has six grown kids: Drena, Raphael, Julian, Aaron, Elliot and Helen. In April 2023, he welcomed his seventh child, Gia.
When asked about his six children, the Oscar winner corrected the interviewer and said: "Seven, actually."
"I just had a baby," he explained, though he didn't provide any further details about the little one.
On the red carpet at the N.Y.C. premiere of his film About My Father, De Niro spoke to Extra about welcoming another child at the age of 79.
"I'm ok with it. I'm good with it," he said, adding that raising children "never gets easier" no matter what age you are.
Well, Benjamin David Lloyd Ross is my 6th child, born last year, his mom Megan is such a wonderfukl mom, wife, friend, I am a very blessed husband, father, grandfather, son, man. Alex was my first son, born in 1990, his mom is Janet Heaslip, we met at Ag College. I have 4 girls from my 2nd marriage with Kim Quenneville. They are Lisa, Sara, Chelsie and Charly, they may be step daughters, they are my girls 100%. There is 15 grand kids so far ( one is in heaven). #16 is on track for May 20th, could be a couple more in the works. 11 step sons, if my math is right.
.. To Be continued, check out comments for more thoughts, articles to keep me functioning well, well into my 90's
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https://www.theepochtimes.com/bright/a-key-to-a-happy-marriage-keep...
I value this type of encouraging advice ~TLR
In "It's Better to Build Boys Than Mend Men," Truett Cathy, the founder of Chick-fil-A, shares his insights on leadership, personal development, and the importance of investing in young people. Drawing from his experiences in business and life, Cathy emphasizes the significance of character building and mentorship in shaping future generations. Here are ten key lessons and insights from the book:
1. The Importance of Character Development: Cathy stresses that building strong character in young boys is essential for their future success. He believes that instilling values such as integrity, respect, and responsibility lays the foundation for becoming good men and leaders.
2. Mentorship Matters: The author emphasizes the transformative power of mentorship in a young person's life. He shares personal stories illustrating how positive role models can inspire boys to pursue their dreams and navigate life's challenges.
3. Investing in Youth: Cathy advocates for investing time and resources in the youth of today. He argues that by providing guidance, support, and opportunities for growth, we can help shape a brighter future for both individuals and society as a whole.
4. The Role of Family: The book highlights the crucial role of family in a boy's development. Cathy discusses how strong family values and relationships provide a safe environment for growth and learning, reinforcing the importance of parental involvement and support.
5. Teaching Life Skills: Cathy believes that teaching practical life skills is as important as academic education. He encourages parents and mentors to equip boys with skills such as financial literacy, communication, and problem-solving, which are vital for success in adulthood.
6. Encouraging a Strong Work Ethic: The author underscores the value of hard work and perseverance. He shares anecdotes from his own life, illustrating how a strong work ethic can lead to opportunities and fulfillment, encouraging boys to take pride in their efforts.
7. Fostering a Positive Attitude: Cathy emphasizes the importance of maintaining a positive attitude in the face of adversity. He teaches that resilience and optimism can significantly impact one’s ability to overcome challenges and achieve goals.
8. Building Relationships: The book highlights the significance of building strong relationships with peers and mentors. Cathy believes that healthy relationships foster teamwork, empathy, and collaboration, essential skills in both personal and professional settings.
9. Creating a Legacy: Cathy discusses the idea of creating a lasting legacy through the lives we touch. He encourages readers to consider the impact they can have on future generations by actively participating in their development and well-being.
10. Faith and Values: Finally, Cathy reflects on the role of faith in shaping character and guiding decisions. He advocates for instilling strong moral and ethical values rooted in faith, which can provide a compass for navigating life’s challenges.
"It's Better to Build Boys Than Mend Men" by Truett Cathy offers profound insights into character development, mentorship, and the importance of investing in youth. The ten key lessons summarized here emphasize the critical role of family, the need for practical life skills, and the significance of fostering positive relationships. By applying these insights, readers can contribute to the development of strong, capable young men who will positively impact society. This book serves as an inspiring resource for parents, educators, and mentors committed to nurturing the next generation.
BOOK: https://amzn.to/3PfwR2V
https://improvingfutures.ning.com/blog/homeschooling
RESPONSIBILITIES OF A FATHER IN A FAMILY:
PRIMARY RESPONSIBILITIES:
1. Providing financial support
2. Emotional guidance and support
3. Disciplining and setting boundaries
4. Role-modeling values and behavior
5. Protecting and ensuring family safety
EMOTIONAL SUPPORT:
1. Listening and validating feelings
2. Offering comfort and reassurance
3. Encouraging open communication
4. Supporting partner's emotional needs
5. Modeling healthy emotional expression
DISCIPLINE AND GUIDANCE:
1. Setting clear expectations and rules
2. Teaching life skills and values
3. Encouraging responsibility and independence
4. Modeling respectful communication
5. Providing constructive feedback
FINANCIAL PROVISION:
1. Managing household finances
2. Providing for family's basic needs
3. Planning for future financial security
4. Saving for children's education
5. Ensuring family's economic stability
ROLE-MODELING:
1. Demonstrating integrity and honesty
2. Modeling respectful relationships
3. Teaching respect for authority
4. Encouraging physical and mental well-being
5. Embodying values and principles
PARENTING PARTNERSHIP:
1. Co-parenting with mother
2. Sharing childcare responsibilities
3. Collaborating on discipline and guidance
4. Supporting partner's parenting style
5. Maintaining united front in parenting
COMMUNITY INVOLVEMENT:
1. Participating in children's activities
2. Volunteering in community or school
3. Building relationships with neighbors
4. Role-modeling social responsibility
5. Fostering community connections
PERSONAL GROWTH:
1. Pursuing personal interests and hobbies
2. Continuing education and self-improvement
3. Maintaining physical and mental health
4. Setting boundaries and prioritizing self-care
5. Seeking support and resources when needed
INFLUENCING CHILDREN'S DEVELOPMENT:
1. Shaping moral and ethical values
2. Encouraging educational and career goals
3. Modeling healthy relationships
4. Teaching life skills and independence
5. Fostering emotional intelligence
REMEMBER:
1. Fatherhood is a unique and vital role.
2. Emotional support is crucial for family well-being.
3. Partnership with your spouse is essential.
4. Role-modeling values and behavior shapes children's development.
5. Seeking support is a sign of strength.
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https://improvingfutures.ning.com/blog/tough
Napoleon Hill’s Thought for the Day
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** Your true age is determined by your mental attitude, not the years you have lived.
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** The American clergyman and author Tyrone Edwards said, “Age does not depend upon years, but upon temperament and health. Some men are born old, and some never grow so.” No doubt you’ve known teenagers who were old before their time and seventy-year-olds who had the temperament and enthusiasm of those discovering the wonders of life for the very first time. It’s all a matter of attitude.
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** As you grow and develop, make sure you experience is directed toward the acquisition of wisdom, not the acceptance of cynicism. If you find it difficult to keep an open mind because of previous experiences, remind yourself that you’re dealing with different people, that conditions have changed, or that because you are older and wiser, your chances of success are greater than in the past.
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