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Learning and Raising Up

Today's devotion below reminds me of a memory I had this week while in Calgary . I shared with a business professor from Kings that I had when I graduated from NLCAT. The Dean in the graduating speech encouraged us all to keep learning, this was not the end of learning. It was advice I took and have always remembered. It has served me well.

 

As we explore learning venues for our son, I am reminded of these important matters. Today's devotion encourages us as well. I did not have this to the depth I now have ( though, I could be much deeper in my knowledge, I am still learning ) I hope and pray that our son will have a solid foundation and understanding as he grows older and develops into a young man.  TLR

May 31, 2026
Instruction Contrary to Knowledge
“Cease, my son, to hear the instruction that causeth to err from the words of knowledge.” (Proverbs 19:27)

One of the saddest realities in the modern world is that many of the leaders of evolutionary and humanistic thought were raised in Christian homes, where from an early age they were exposed to the truths of Scripture. Testimonies without number have been chronicled of Christian students going to universities where they were taught to doubt and then to disbelieve the faith of their parents. Perhaps all these students ever knew of Christianity was a set of rules; maybe they never understood the reasons their parents held certain views or the basis for these beliefs. Certainly the foundational teaching of creation has been missing in many Christian homes and churches.

Our primary goal as parents should be to establish a godly heritage—to teach the truths of God in such a way as will be believed and cherished by our children so that they will “keep that which is committed to [their] trust, avoiding profane and vain babblings, and oppositions of science falsely so called” (1 Timothy 6:20).

Certainly a more effective way of teaching is to continually point the child or student back to foundational principles rather than to list a set of dos and don’ts. We must teach those under our influence to be grounded in the Word so that they can make sound judgments when away from our watchful eyes. No greater aid to serious study, no better primer in careful reasoning exists than in Scripture. Using it and other supportive materials, a child can learn to think carefully and critically. Not only will they learn information, but here they can learn wisdom and knowledge and understanding. “For the LORD giveth wisdom: out of his mouth cometh knowledge and understanding” (Proverbs 2:6). JDM


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message to Janet and Oswald

Good morning Oswald, I have been away on various endeavours, I spotted you at church last Sunday, however I had to leave before I got to say hello. I trust you and your wife are doing well. Looking forward to seeing you today. Tim .... PS, your first name also is a very famous name , I am not sure if you know that, Oswald Chambers , he was a Scottish Evangelist and his wife took many notes of his sermons, he died very young and she compiled those notes and wrote some devotional books, the most famous My Utmost For His Highest . I studied that book for many years, so your name reminds me of this.


https://utmost.org/

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Fatherhood nearing 60

Ya, that's me. 

 

It's awesome. 

 

So, I'm going to post some examples of other older fellas that have kids when they are older. A base to start some muses for later. 

 

My friend Darren, brought up

 

Al Pacino  https://people.com/parents/all-about-al-pacino-kids/

Al Pacino is officially a dad of four!

The 83-year-old actor welcomed a baby boy, Roman Pacino, with his girlfriend, Noor Alfallah, 29, in June 2023. The couple, who have been dating since April 2022, announced that they were expecting their first child together just weeks before their son's arrival.

Robert De Niro 

https://people.com/parents/all-about-robert-de-niro-kids/

Robert De Niro has six grown kids: Drena, Raphael, Julian, Aaron, Elliot and Helen. In April 2023, he welcomed his seventh child, Gia.

When asked about his six children, the Oscar winner corrected the interviewer and said: "Seven, actually."

"I just had a baby," he explained, though he didn't provide any further details about the little one. 

On the red carpet at the N.Y.C. premiere of his film About My Father, De Niro spoke to Extra about welcoming another child at the age of 79.

"I'm ok with it. I'm good with it," he said, adding that raising children "never gets easier" no matter what age you are.

 

Well, Benjamin David Lloyd Ross is my 6th child, born last year, his mom Megan is such a wonderfukl mom, wife, friend, I am a very blessed husband, father, grandfather, son, man.  Alex was my first son, born in 1990, his mom is Janet Heaslip, we met at Ag College. I have 4 girls from my 2nd marriage with Kim Quenneville. They are Lisa, Sara, Chelsie and Charly, they may be step daughters, they are my girls 100%.  There is 15 grand kids so far ( one is in heaven). #16 is on track for May 20th, could be a couple more in the works. 11 step sons, if my math is right. 

.. To Be continued, check out comments for more thoughts, articles to keep me functioning well, well into my 90's 

 

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