Heart of The Matter
I was colaborating on a mini research matter with my wife and I came across this blog that was profiling the heart, the condition of the heart and a bit of questions regarding the heart and why that symbol was of significance, and thus the title the "Heart of The Matter" I decided to add Sand Box as i do not know where this will go. So as always please check out the comment section for additional information and future additions.
https://www.h2hliving.ca/blog/2018/2/10/heartfelt-reflections
"Our culture has a thing about hearts, the universal symbol of love. To show our love, we have balloon hearts and candy hearts, stuffed hearts and necklace hearts. There’s even a heart hand-symbol that has gone viral. Yep, words are no longer necessary. If you want to tell that special someone how you feel about them, curl your fingers with thumbs together, and smile. But when you think about it, why would we choose the symbol of a heart to convey the message of love? Why not a brain? Or a kidney? Or a stomach? (the stomach would definitely work with the men in my family!). Just what is it with us human beings and the heart?"
As I work through this, turns out I need to do a update on my phone for the operating system, sounds simple enough, so I figure that can do its thing while I do this, so click , but it doesn't click. The memory is too full, too much data on the phone, needs 13 G's and I only hve 12 , so something has to go, now we have to do a purge, the heart of the matter. So I have to decide wht goes , what stays, what can be rehomed ? For curiousity, I check out the updates, 4 pages of improvements. That is a lot of future reading. Off the printer that goes for future review or simply stack it on the blog post for posterity purposes. Where is the love , its a bit about being curious, how do things work, intereact , the heart of the matter.
Curious, I went for the delete on the email file, millions of bits of data, alread stored on my computer at work. Poof, not needed on my phone. Will see if that makes a difference. Took some time to do. Refreshed.
Still not enough, need 12 and I only have 8 GM available ,4 more to find.
Baby time, will have to return to this mission. later
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Got me thinking about my baby brother that I never knew, where is he buried, going to do some research, maybe the funeral director who took care of my Aunt Eleanor can help. Maybe there is a directory at the cemetery.
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HOW TO RESPECT YOURSELF
1. Stop chasing those who aren’t interested in you.
2. Avoid begging for attention or validation.
3. Speak less and let your words carry weight.
4. Address disrespect promptly and assertively.
5. Avoid overindulging in others’ generosity if it’s not reciprocated.
6. Limit visits to those who don’t value your presence.
7. Prioritize self-investment and your happiness.
8. Avoid engaging in gossip or unnecessary negativity.
9. Think carefully before you speak—your words define your value.
10. Always present yourself well; dress to reflect your worth.
11. Focus on your goals and stay productive.
12. Value and protect your time.
13. Leave any relationship where you’re not respected or valued.
14. Spend on yourself—it teaches others to respect your worth.
15. Be unavailable sometimes; it creates value.
16. Give more than you take.
17. Don’t go where you’re not invited, and when you are, don’t overstay your welcome.
18. Treat people as they deserve to be treated.
19. Except for owed money, two missed calls are enough; let them return the effort if they care.
20. Strive for excellence in all you do.
Thank you for reading.